While checking out Emmerald's forums, I noticed one of his posters (Gratch82) had linked I site I'd never seen before...Lootzor. I played around with it a bit and found it pretty interesting. Basically, you rank the stats on a scale of 1-10 based on it's importance to you (i.e. you want to increase stam and have defense maxed; enter stam 10 defense 1.)
I did not notice any of the 2.3 items pulling in to the list but, it's still very useful.